Good news for a bad woman!

When Jesus broke all Jewish convention by traveling through Samaria to go from Judea to Galilee (see The Gospel smashes through prejudice!), He did so in order to meet a woman.

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John 4:6-7 (NKJV) Now Jacob’s well was there. Jesus therefore, being wearied from His journey, sat thus by the well. It was about the sixth hour. 7  A woman of Samaria came to draw water. Jesus said to her, “Give Me a drink.”

The woman Jesus was to meet was, in every sense of the word, a bad woman.

She was not a criminal, not a robber or drug dealer or murderer. But she was a woman who was living a completely messed up lifestyle. She had had a lot of men in her life, trying to make herself happy. But she wasn’t happy.

We can tell she wasn’t happy because she had been married five times, and none of those marriages had lasted. You don’t have to go through five marriages if you are happy! So, this woman was a five-time loser.

She had been so damaged by the kind of life she had led, so damaged in her personality, in her outlook on life, in the kind of person she had become … so damaged by the choices she made in life, that she couldn’t keep a marriage together. And so, after five marriages, she wasn’t even trying anymore, and was living with a man she was not married to.

Because of her lifestyle, she was an outcast among the people of her village. That’s probably why she was at the well alone at midday – none of the other women, who came to the well in the cool of the morning or of the evening, wanted anything to do with her.

So, she came to the well. And there was a man sitting there, a Jew who had the unexpected audacity to ask her for a drink of water.

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“Woman at the Well” by Carl Heinrich Bloch (1834-1890) in the Chapel at Frederiksborg Palace in Copenhagen

Thus began the divine appointment that would change this woman’s life forever. Jesus Christ, the very Best of the Best, had arranged to have some quality time alone with a woman whom everyone in her village would name the worst of the worst. She would hear the gospel that day, and she would never be the same again.

Romans 1:16    For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ, for it is the power of God to salvation for everyone who believes, for the Jew first and also for the Greek.

The gospel is God’s power for salvation, no matter who you are. It’s just as powerful, and just as needed, whether everyone thinks you are the most outstanding person in the community, or that you are, like this woman, the worst of the worst. Or if you are, like me, somewhere in between.

If the gospel could revolutionize this bad woman’s life, it can revolutionize mine. And that truly is good news!

Ron Franklin

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Confessing to one another

I’m a pretty private person. I don’t particularly like sharing the details of my private life with other people, especially when something negative has occurred. Yet the Bible teaches me that there are times when I need to do exactly that.

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James 5:16 (NKJV) Confess your trespasses to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The effective, fervent prayer of a righteous man avails much.

When I mess up in my life, one of the means back to spiritual health is to be willing to confess my failure to someone else. I think there are a couple of positive things that happen when I do that.

First, confessing my trespasses to others keeps me accountable. I remember once when out of embarrassment I told a flagrant lie to someone. For the rest of that day and night God hounded me! He made it very apparent that for me to restore my relationship with Him, I would have to go to the person I lied to and confess. That was the last thing I wanted to do! But I had no peace until I finally committed myself to doing it. And now my fervent desire to never have to repeat that experience helps me avoid resorting to convenient lies to get through difficult situations.

The second way being willing to confess our faults to another person helps is that it contributes to us tearing down our walls of pride. Or, to put it another way, confessing our failures to someone else requires an attitude of humility that is the opposite of the pride that wants to keep our mess-ups hidden.

BUT… yes, we should be humble, but also wise. The Scripture is not teaching that we need to broadcast our sins to the whole world. It says confess to “one another.” To me that says we should confess our faults to selected brothers and sisters in Christ who will receive our confession with gentleness and love, and respond with wise and godly counsel.

Ron Franklin

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I choose to rejoice, even though I did something stupid!

Last night I broke off the driver side mirror on my car. I was heartsick because I knew I had caused myself completely unnecessary trouble and expense.

With ice covering the ground, I had backed my car out of the driveway while holding a heavy container through the window. What I didn’t expect was that the bottom of that container would hit the hump of ice deposited at the entrance to the driveway by the municipal snowplow.

I had cleared away enough of the ice to get my car safely over the hump. But I didn’t anticipate that the container I was holding through the window would strike that hump and be knocked toward the front of the car.

That’s what happened, though, and in an instant the container slammed against my mirror assembly, and snapped it right off.

Broken off mirror-RonFFor a moment I sat there in stunned disbelief. A minute ago my car was entirely whole and in good running condition. Now, after just one careless moment, I found myself facing perhaps hundreds of dollars in repairs, not to mention all the inconvenience and loss of time it would take to restore my car to the condition it had been in just a few moments earlier.

A palpable sense of regret began settling in on my mind. But then, hard on the hills of regret, Scripture started inserting itself into my thoughts.

James 1:2-4    My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, 3  knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. 4  But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.

Romans 8:28    And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.

Immediately, I was confronted with the question: do I believe these things or not?

My answer was and is emphatically, yes! And so now I had to make a choice which direction I would allow my mind to go in. Go with the flow of the depressing feeling of regret that was the natural reaction to my own stupidity? Or take hold of the promises of God and rejoice in spite of my trial?

I’ve decided to rejoice!

Yes, I made a stupid mistake that caused totally unnecessary damage to my car. And, yes I might have to pay who knows how much to repair that totally unnecessary damage. And yes, it will cause me to devote precious time to undoing the totally unnecessary damage I caused myself by my own carelessness. And yes, all those “totally unnecessaries” are fertile ground for feelings of depression and regret!

But I choose to not allow regret to overwhelm me. I chose, instead, to rejoice in the Lord because He has promised that He will somehow bring good out of my careless and stupid actions.

Philippians 4:4    Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I will say, rejoice!

And “always” means even when you break your car’s mirror by your own stupidity!

Ron Franklin

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God knows all about us, and loves us anyway!

When Jesus met the woman at the well in Samaria, He got right into her business! When He asked her to go call her husband, and she replied that she didn’t have a husband, Jesus let her know He knew all about it.

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John 4:17-18 (NKJV) The woman answered and said, “I have no husband.” Jesus said to her, “You have well said, ‘I have no husband,’ 18 for you have had five husbands, and the one whom you now have is not your husband; in that you spoke truly.”

Having had five husbands, and now living unmarried with her boyfriend, this was a woman shunned by almost everyone in her village. That’s why she had to come to the well alone – none of the other women wanted anything to do with such an out-and-out sinner.

But Jesus wanted her to know that God knew all about her, all her faults, failings, and sins, and still loved her anyway.

That’s a message that I, no less than that woman, need to hear. God knows me completely. He knows the very worst about me, things that I pray nobody else ever finds out about. Yet He loves me anyway! In fact, the Bible assures me that nothing can ever separate me from His love (Romans 8:35-39).

To me, that’s really Good News!

Ron Franklin

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You are not an accident!

Whatever else may be said about you, one thing about you is indisputable – you are not an accident. You are who you are, with the characteristics and abilities you possess (or don’t possess), not by blind chance, but by the predetermined will of God.

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Ephesians 2:10 (NKJV) For we are His workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand that we should walk in them.

There are no accidents with God!

The Bible says that God knew all about you, and in fact planned for you, before the foundation of the world (Ephesians 1:4). He knew you by name. He knew exactly when and where you would be born, because He planned it that way.

He knew you would be male or female, black or white or Hispanic or Asian, or whatever your heritage may be. He planned that you would be short or tall, and gave you the genes that predispose you to be husky or slim.

God knew what kind of singing voice you would have, and whether or not you would feel comfortable speaking before a crowd of people. He specifically predetermined whether you would be outgoing or shy; more comfortable being an up-front person, or would rather be a behind the scenes worker.

He made you exactly who you need to be in order for you to fulfill His plan for your life.

And there is a plan!

It’s a plan for good works that God prepared long before you were born for you to accomplish in your life. And the place where you live, the people among whom you live, your coworkers on the job, or even the waitress who seems to always serve your table when you drop into your favorite restaurant for lunch – all of these fit into the plan God preordained for your life.

So, stop wishing you looked different, or talked different, could sing better, were taller or shorter, or were of a different race; or that you had a different job, or a different husband or wife – or different children!

God has formed you and placed you in the exact setting where you can do the most good. Never let anybody, including yourself, tell you different.

Ron Franklin

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Let God use you!

Do you ever find yourself feeling like you don’t have a lot to offer in service to God? You can’t preach or teach or sing. Of what use can you possibly be to Him?

Well, if you feel that way, God’s got you exactly where He wants you to be!

God is not looking for people who think they have a lot to offer. In fact, it’s the ones who think they are so talented and special that God is lucky to have them who are of no use to Him.

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2 Corinthians 4:7 (NKJV) But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellence of the power may be of God and not of us.

God glorifies Himself by using people who don’t seem to have a lot to offer!

Here’s something I’ve discovered in my life: I’m not qualified to say what I have that God can use! He has built qualities and capabilities into me that I may not even be aware of.

He’s not asking for me to give Him what I think is valuable; He’s asking for me to give Him myself. Then He can shape me into exactly the person He can use for His purposes.

And when people see what God can do through someone who has all the limitations I have, they won’t be able to help giving Him the glory He deserves!

Ron Franklin

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Leave the past year in the past!

It’s a blessing to be allowed to see a new year!

Of course, this celebrating of moving from one year to the next is entirely in our minds. It often strikes me, as I watch birds and squirrels and other animals going about their business, that they don’t know or care that a new year has started. Only we humans take note.

But there is real significance to entering a new year. It’s a time when we particularly focus on where we are in life. For all of us I’m sure we had a lot of regrets during the old year, things we did, decisions we made, that we wish had never happened. But we get to choose whether those old regrets will define our lives in this new year.

That’s what I think the apostle Paul is showing us as he shares his approach to life:

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Philippians 3:13-14 (NKJV) Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended; but one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead, 14 I press toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus.

Those regrets for what didn’t go right in our lives in the year just past – leave them in the past with the old year! Forget them (except to learn from them, so we don’t repeat the same mistakes).

This new year represents a whole set of new opportunities to fulfill the calling for which God has placed each of us on the earth in this time and place. So, reach forward to those things which are ahead!

That’s what the turning of the calendar from December to January ought to represent: determination to press forward in hope, rather than linger over the regrets of the past.

Ron Franklin

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God’s love for us is real, not fake!

“Love” is a very versatile word. We use it to say many different things. For example, I may say “I love ice cream,” meaning that eating ice cream is enjoyable to me. On the other hand, I may also say (and do), “I love my wife,” without at all implying that I want to chew on and digest her! So, when someone speaks of love, we must really examine what they mean.

For example, what kind of love is the Bible speaking of when it says:

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John 3:16 (NKJV) For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.

The verse itself shows us what God means when He talks about loving us: “For God so loved the world that He GAVE…” REAL love always involves giving! When you really love someone, your first desire is to bless them as much as you can.

On the other hand, consider the young man who says to his girlfriend, “I love you … so come and go to bed with me.”

That’s the opposite of the God kind of love. It’s more concerned with getting what he wants from the one he claims to love than with giving a blessing to her. And anytime love is more about getting than giving, it’s not real – it’s a FAKE love.

The great thing about God’s love for us is that it is totally a giving love. He gave Jesus, the Son of God, to come and live among us, and then to die for us, that we might be blessed with eternal life. There’s nothing fake about that!

God’s love for us is totally awesome… and it’s totally real!

Ron Franklin

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The Advent of Hope

This is the season of Advent, when we celebrate the coming of the Son of God into the world. The birth of Jesus is now more than 2000 years in our past. But it was foretold in about 730 BC, more than 700 years before the event, by the prophet Isaiah:

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Isaiah 9:6-7 (NKJV)  For unto us a Child is born, Unto us a Son is given; And the government will be upon His shoulder. And His name will be called Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. 7  Of the increase of His government and peace There will be no end, Upon the throne of David and over His kingdom, To order it and establish it with judgment and justice From that time forward, even forever. The zeal of the Lord of hosts will perform this.

As I thought about this prophecy, I began wondering why it was given. After all, at the time God had Isaiah make this first Advent announcement, the coming of Christ was more than seven centuries in the future. None of the people to whom Isaiah proclaimed that good news would be around to see it fulfilled! So why did God announce the Advent of Christ at that particular time, when the people who heard the announcement wouldn’t live to see it happen?

I think it’s because God wanted to give His people hope. He wanted them living in joyful anticipation of their coming Redeemer. Even in the darkest of times, such as the very time in which Isaiah spoke, God’s people would know that He had a glorious future in store for them. The Prince of Peace would come, and would set all things in order.

We, too, live in dark times. We have seen the Child who was born, and He has indeed been to us “Wonderful, Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.” In that we can rejoice right now!

But, like the people to whom Isaiah first revealed the coming of the Son, we too look forward in anticipation and hope to the time when He returns to sit upon the throne of David. Just as surely as He came 2000 years ago to be the Prince of Peace, He has promised to come again to establish His reign of judgment and justice. And that reign shall never end!

Ron Franklin

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Celebrating the coming of Christ

We have entered into the season of Advent. In the churches I attended as a child, Advent was never particularly celebrated. But in many churches and denominations, both Protestant and Catholic, Advent is an important time of the year. So, what’s it all about?

The word “advent” simply means “coming.” In the Christian context, it refers to the coming of Christ, as in the following verse:

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1 Thessalonians 2:19 (NKJV) For what is our hope, or joy, or crown of rejoicing? Is it not even you in the presence of our Lord Jesus Christ at His coming?

The Greek word translated “coming” is parousia. It was the term used for the arrival of an emperor, a king, or a governor. The Latin translation of the word is “adventus,” which comes into English as “advent.”

So, the season of Advent is all about celebrating the coming of Christ into the world. That’s why Advent, which starts on the fourth Sunday before December 25, is associated with Christmas.

Is Advent worth celebrating? That’s what the angels told the shepherds when Jesus was born:

Luke 2:10  Then the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid, for behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy which will be to all people.

God Himself celebrated the coming of His Son into the world. And He wanted us to celebrate as well, for that coming, that Advent, represents “good tidings of great joy which will be to all people.”

So, yes, whether we do so formally or informally, it is definitely in order for Christians to celebrate Advent. For the coming of Christ into the world is indeed good news of great joy!

Ron Franklin

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